It's a Wonderful Life

Merry late Christmas everyone! I hope you all had a wonderful experience with your families, friends, and whoever you were with. And if you were alone for some reason, I hope you enjoyed some really quality time by yourself and with God! We all need those experiences. I know for sure that I enjoyed Christmas very much. To be completely honest though, it was hard on me to be so far from my family in a time where I've literally never been apart from them. It was hard not to constantly think of all the memories and the traditions that I so wish I was taking part in. But, I learned very quickly, that regardless of where I am and what I'm doing, Christmas can still be a wonderful experience. Because of the lack of things I was used to, I was able to focus almost entirely upon my Savior and the true meaning of Christmas through the service we did. Though we were given most of Christmas day off if we desired, my companion and I decided we would visit a member to help her out and then afterwards we even ended up helping our branch president deliver gifts. It is definitely a day I will always remember and appreciate. 

Something else that was quite strange for me was that Christmas is not a big deal here really at all. On Christmas we would walk around telling everyone "gezuar krishtlindjet!" And they would just respond with a simple half-hearted "oh gezuar". It literally just was a regular day to the Albanians which was quite weird haha. Over here in Eastern Europe the big holiday is new years so not many people celebrate Christmas very much (not to mention its a Muslim country and they don't worship Jesus Christ haha). So, with that in mind I'm kinda hyped for the new year because I'm sure it'll be quite different. 

We did some really good work this week. We were able to buckle down and visit quite a few members, several of which were less active. I am putting my best effort into really connecting with this branch to help revive it a little bit. It's definitely kind of dried up with the average attendance of 25-30 people in church when we have 300 members. All of the strong members here get all nostalgic on us talking about how many people used to come every Sunday and how close everyone was. Things have definitely changed due to people moving, not liking someone in church (this happens so much here it's crazy), not feeling like they belong, not having a testimony, etc. There are definitely a lot of reasons for an inactive branch, but overall we are trying to bring back a stronger sense of family. Truly church on Sunday is a place to come for comradery and nourishment after a long week. It's a place to rejoice in each other's success and to comfort in each other's loss. This is what we are trying to encourage. We just pray the branch can begin to grow a little greener. 

We also got another exchange in this week. I got to spend a day in Fier with my good ol Elder Qose. I love that guy. He is an absolute beast and I've learned a ton from him. He's definitely someone who has impacted me forever through his example and his teachings. It was a good day down there too and we did some great work together. On top of that, we also made yet another video for our Adriatic South Mission variety show which I will not spoil in this moment since I know that some of our missionaries have access to this email. However, it was a great time. Definitely another one of those experiences I will never forget to say the least. 

On the topic of the title, I have two things. First off, because my mission president is awesome, we were allowed to watch "It's a wonderful life" on Sunday. Such a good movie with such a great message. On a similar note, I have been feeling a lot of appreciation for life myself. Life is rarely what we expect it to be, but it truly is wonderful. There are miracles all around us. It's been important for me to try and remember the big picture - God's great work on earth - and that he is in the little details that likely will never be known until the work is done. I'd like to invite you all to try and be a little more grateful for your wonderful life this week and this coming year. We are so lucky to be alive. 

Also I got some great new drip today in Tirana. Check out my Northface Gucci collab Hoodie that I snagged for 20$ in the photos. Albania exclusive.

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Car Pune, Sickness, and Throwing a Party

Hello, and welcome back to the Monday morning talk show. Our exclusive Albanian based channel is the only place where you can get an experience completely and solely focused on the missionary efforts of the one and only Elder Millsap while he works to become a better person and serve the people of Elbasan, Albania. 

As you will see by the upcoming footage, this week was a slower one for our dear Elder. He spent quite a lot of time working on the little tasks that had piled up over the last long while with other missionaries. One thing of importance, is that our Elbasan elders were asked to help prepare the Elbasan chapel for a large Christmas gathering that was had on Saturday. Any attempts to decorate the church for the party were thwarted during the week by some deep cleaning workers that were there. Therefore, any decorating did not happen until late Friday afternoon, a mere 24 hours before this said party would begin. Regardless, our fearless elders did what they could including cutting out snowflakes, taping tinsel above doors, figuring out how to make a Christmas tree stay upright on a broken stand (a special thank you to sisters Green and Smith there), and overall having a lack of materials to decorate with to add to the challenge. The decorating finished approximately an hour and a half before the party, and the elders then immediately began to set up the building for hosting a large number of individuals from the many branches of South Albania. This happened to include making 3 giant pots of hot chocolate from scratch, but this time, they had the help of the assistants to the president which made the experience quite a bit more enjoyable for our Elder Millsap. Against all odds, the Christmas party was a slam dunk success that many people enjoyed. All went well and when everyone left, the elders of Elbasan were left to clean everything up. 

Another highlight of Elder Millsaps week was their journeyings to Tirana and back. Due to transfers and some repairs being made to the car they use, the elders of Elbasan dropped their vehicle off in the shop on Tuesday, got dropped off without their car the same day in Elbasan, and then took a bus up to Tirana the old fashioned way on Thursday to retrieve it. To make the experience even more enjoyable Elder Rowley decided it would be a great idea to catch a very bad cold. This in turn meant that they spent most of their days of Wednesday and Thursday at home so that Elder Rowley could recover. But, on the bright side, Elder Millsap was able to get in some great practice on a guitar he had inherited from the one and only Elder Garrett when he finished his mission and made the long journey home early in the week. Elder Millsap has enjoyed this guitar quite a lot and hopes to improve greatly in his skills over the course of his mission. 

That's about all folks! Our staff here at Monday morning talk show would like to wish all of you and your families a very merry Christmas this week! Tune in next week to hear how Christmas is in the Adriatic South Mission and enjoy the footage featured below!

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Segregation and Translation

 To start off here is a haiku I wrote in Albanian when I was super bored waiting for a member to finish training herself on our computer at the teaching center (kind of a weird long story that I won't get into)

Dje ishte mësim 

Nesër ka ëndrrat tona

Sot është mrekulli

What a great week it was. It had quite a lot of variety which spiced things up for us real nice. Lots of good lessons came from all sources with little and big miracles sprinkled throughout. Very grateful. 

I mentioned this briefly last week, but we had an exchange in Pogradec on Wednesday! That was a fun experience to say the least. There *cough* were 4 Elders there and they are a force of nature. They are easily so of my favorite missionaries out here and they get some great work done. Honestly, I think I learned more from them as their zone leader than they learned from us. It was a great final hoorah for Elde Garret as well. He goes home tomorrow after having served a very successful mission. What an incredible man. He definitely sets the standard high for all of us other missionaries. Anyways, the exchange was awesome. Pogradec is in the mountains on the shore of a big mountain lake called Lake Ohrid. It kinda gave me bear lake vibes actually not gonna lie. Because of this, it was quite cold in Pogradec. They didn't have snow when we were over there, but I think they might now. It is one of the few areas in the mission that consistently gets snow throughout the mission. Super hype because snow is the best. Another fun fact about Pogradec: tons of people use wood burning stoves to heat their homes so come 4 o clock or so when it starts getting dark, the smoke in the city is so thick you can see it everywhere. The smell made me miss camping a little bit too... Very good stuff. To wrap up our exchange in the evening, we played a great game of Catan so you can know it was a super fire exchange for sure. 

After getting back from Pogi, we needed to do some work to renew our car registration. It ended up becoming quite the hassle because neither I or elder Rowley knew what was going on at all. Anyways, while we were doing this car work, this young kid comes up to me and starts begging for money. Being used to this, I ignored his question and started some basic small talk with the kid. Within just a couple minutes we were basically best friends. He brought over his other friend (who initially asked for money as well) and introduced him to us. As we were walking back to our car as well, these kids ran up to us and asked us if they could show us a church that was nearby (since we had mentioned we were volunteers for our church). Being pressed on time I was hesitant to say anything, but eventually I agreed and we followed them down into a really ghetto and poor neighborhood. They showed us their church, which turned out to be protestant, and got barked at by a dog when the kid tried to open the church gate. Well, right next to this church lives this nice family with like 5 kids or something (that's very significant in albania). We started talking to these super cool kids and I also talked to who I believe was their mother. All of them were very friendly and told me that the church was shume keq and not good at all. We talked to them for a while explaining our church and everything and why we were so far from our families and all that, and eventually realized we needed to get moving so we promised to return one day to visit. Hopefully we can find time for that visit sometime this week because God for sure led us to them through the beggar kids. 

Sad news: our sisters are being taken from us and Elder Rowley and I will be left alone to manage the city of Elbasan. Transfer calls came in again on Friday since we've got quite a few missionaries going home this coming week and to everyone's surprise, they separated all of the elders and sisters into different areas. Our mission seems to have a reputation for missionaries falling in love for some reason so that might have something to do with it, but either way, there are now no elder/sister areas. The areas that have multiple companionships now either have 4 sisters or 4 Elders. Pretty hype actually and I hope I can serve in one of these Mega elder areas in the near future. I'm I'm hoping they end up moving Elders into Elbasan because it might prove a little difficult to balance our ZL work with the attention and time our area needs. Another bummer is that there are things that the sisters definitely can do that we can't and they are certainly better than us in a lot of other things so we will have to step up our game big time without them. Updates to come as I continue to try and figure out this area haha. 

Language update: things are looking up but also slightly more stressful. We have a senior couple that's comes to the Elbasan branch and so we as missionaries need to translate for them. Sister Satterthwaite is a legend with the language so she has been translating sacrament meeting and Sunday school for the both of them. Well she is leaving now and therefore elder Rowley and I will have to do it. Elder Rowley will probably take it for the next little while, but when he leaves who knows who will be coming into the area, so I'm guessing the baton will be quickly passed to me. Elder Rowley didn't want to translate yesterday in priesthood so I tried to do so and kind of failed miserably. Poor Elder Booth probably only got 20% of what was said translated for him. Live transcription, as it turns out, is very difficult so I will be working on that a lot in my language studies so that I can do a good job for them in the future. Tune in next transfer to hear from the transcripting legend Elder Millsap (I'm hoping if I say that it'll give me a little extra incentive and that then it will actually be the case here in a month).

Anyways, that's probably about all for now my good friends and family. The only other thing of notice I'd say is the Mega soccer pday we had today. There are a ton of missionaries in Tirana because of transfers and I think we literally had 30-40 missionaries in one place playing soccer/football. Very wild but I don't think I will be getting those pictures because we have some forgetful missionaries in our mission haha. If they happen to be in the album when you open it, that's your treat I guess. 

Merry early Christmas everyone! Enjoy yourselves! Love you all!

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Moving Up In the World?

A pleasure it is to be writing to you all once again. I'm pretty short on time this week so I will keep it nice and brief. 

The main thing to note is that I transferred! I am now serving in Elbasan with Elder Rowley as a zone leader. If you aren't sure what that is, it just means that you are kind of in charge of keeping the zone of missionaries in check, doing trainings, making sure the companionships are doing okay, etc.  It's got a lot of perks for sure. For instance, one thing we get to do is do exchanges with all of the elders in the zone. This means that we are now able to travel to all the far corners of the zone in order to work with different companionships for about a day and Albania is beautiful so that's pretty hype. We should be heading over to Pogradec this week which will be sick. Another perk is that I inherited a really comfortable zone leader robe. Kinda weird but I've grown to really like it. Pictures do feature it. 

This week had some really good stuff as well. I've just been adjusting to the area trying to meet members and stuff, but in the meantime we had a mission tour with Elder De Feo! He is the Europe area president in the church and he taught us some great things. Basically, we had two 2 hour sessions of this mission tour over zoom which basically was just some incredible messages from this guy for multiple hours in total. He talked a lot about how everyone on earth receives unconditional blessings from God because he loves us. But, on the other hand there are conditional blessings we can receive by doing what God asks us. These conditional blessings can be referred to as power. We can receive power to become more and resist the attacks of the adversary when we do what God commands us, and we receive especially great power when we keep the covenants we have made with God as well. It was a great reminder to me that I need to be mindful myself of the covenants (or promises) that I have made to God in my life and particularly in the temple. Remembering what we have promised and keeping those promises can and will give us immense power over our lives and will give us that same power as well the bless the lives of those around us as well! I'd honestly love to just share everything this man said to us in here, but there's no way my writings could portray the significance of the message. Elder De Feo truly is an incredible man though. I am so grateful to have learned from him. 

Something that I love about Elbasan: CHURCH! I got to just sit and enjoy a sacrament meeting and Sunday school for the first time in over 4 months! That is something I truly took for granted and I'm so glad to have it back. It is also great to fully understand everything *usually* said in Albanian in church as well! The gift of tongues is siiiiick.

Okay you guys are the bomb. I promise I'll write a better email next week! Pafshim!

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Lots of Rain and Being Forced to Grow Up

What's up guys? I'm being transferred. I'm not gonna tell you where yet though because that's the bait to actually open the email. I've got loooots to report this week so I'm just gonna jump right into it.

I've bragged a lot about Gjirokaster in the past and it's for good reason. To prove it is all I say it is, President Burdon actually came down to visit with his family when they flew in to see him. Because he came down here, we got to all have dinner together and the AP's stayed over at our place. Super fun actually because our AP's are some of the dopest missionaries out there. Anyways, after talking to them and spending the evening with them back in the house, we discovered that we were having a relatively significant transfer happening this coming week and that transfer calls were on Thursday. This is when I began to get scared.

FLASH FORWARD to Thursday. It was THANKSGIVING! Flipping love Thanksgiving. It is arguably in my top 3 holidays. We were lucky enough to have the opportunity to meet up with our district in Vlore (might be the last time I'm there for a while :(((...) and have a fantastic Thanksgiving dinner. Everyone prepared different dishes and we got to sit and just eat after having a great district council, discussing what we're grateful for, listening to good music, etc. It was already pretty much one of the best moments of my mission so far, and then after we finished stuffing ourselves we decided to play around the world ping-pong. That took things to a whole new level. Ping-pong might be the Celestial sport not even gonna lie. Super fun evening there and a very good bonding experience with the district but little did I know that it was my last time with all of them together. 

At around 8 or so we left for Fier with the Elders on our way back to their apartment to stay the night. I was actually on the phone with my family (since it was a holiday) when I got a notification that I had just missed a call from a certain someone. I was filled with the adrenaline and dread known only to those who have ever served a mission and received a transfer call. After calling President Burdon back, I discovered that I indeed am leaving Gjirokaster and will be transferred to the city of Elbasan to serve as a Zone Leader! Quite the unexpected call. I'm a little bummed to not finish training my guy Elder Cannon but that's alright. An Elder from my MTC group is actually coming down to finish his training and he's a boss so all will definitely go well there. I've also been asked to stay in relatively close contact with them as ZL too just to help them get started off well in the best area known to mankind so I'm still almost gonna be serving here. It's nice to be serving as ZL of the same zone though because it actually gives me the opportunity to come back to Gjirokaster for exchanges. It's a very hard corner of the mission to reach and I'm lucky enough to be serving in one of the few areas where it is possible to get down there. Blessed.

Since Thursday, we have been pounding the work here trying to get things in good shape for Elder Snider. I've been calling through a bunch of old contacts, the last week and I believe there is definitely some promise there. Elder Snider will have to be the one to follow up on those unfortunately because first thing tomorrow I'm on my way to Elbasan. We had some good stuff go on this weekend though including having 3 people come to family home evening (a big deal I'm not even joking) and then having a church attendance of 7! (an even BIGGER deal!) It was the ideal weekend to end my service down here.

It has been a lot harder than I expected saying goodbye to all of the people down here. We have a very small teaching pool (and I mean VERY small) so it's hard to stay busy, but what ends up happening as a result is that you get really close with the people you do meet with. I have grown really close to a select few people here in the 4 months I've served here in Gjirokaster and that makes it tough (especially since it's such a remote place on the mission and there's a chance that even with exchanges I won't see them again). On top of all that, this place is absolutely beautiful. The castle on top of the city with the old fortified stone houses lining the mountain is a sight that still takes my breath away. I have found that at difficult times, all I have to do is look out the window of our apartment or walk through this small city and it's pretty easy to find deep gratitude regardless of what's going on in the work. I am really gonna miss these mountains that surround the city and the amazing workouts I've been getting walking up this mountain every other day. I've made some amazing memories here. 

Even with all that being said, I really am very excited to serve in Elbasan. I've only heard good things and there are a lot of benefits that Gjirokaster just doesn't have. First off, THERES A CHAPEL. That's a big one. Second, we have sisters in our area which is sure to spice things up haha we love them. Third, there's actually a good branch there with really awesome and good active members that I'll get to interact with. Fourth, I'll be able to learn Albanian again from more experienced missionaries than myself because I've literally just been learning the last transfer on my own talking to people (which lowkey worked surprisingly well but I still need help). Fifth, it's way closer to a lot of areas so I'll be able to meet up with people on P-Day much more often which is dope. There are definitely more benefits as well but these are the main ones for me. :))

Speaking of P-Day, Elder Cannon and I are just chilling here in Gjirokaster again. As I type this, it is dumping so much rain that we can't see out our window and all you can hear is the rain hitting the cement roof above us. Craziest part is that 10 minutes ago we thought it was gonna clear up for a bit because the sun came out... Sad stuff. Anyways, we are going to explore this beautiful city one last time in this pouring rain and probably just enjoy some father and son time together before I leave the kid forever. By the time I send this email out I'll probably have some good pictures for you all in the album.

I love you guys! I'll let you know how Elbasan is!

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Life on the Road

The goal is to make this email a little bit less boring than the last one so let me know how I do. Swipe up, comment below, drop a like, and leave me some feedback. Love you guys haha thanks for putting up with me.

Not really sure where to start for this week. We were all over the place. First off, we only actually spent 3 days in our area this week due to zone conference and some new travel rules. To sum it up, we now need to generally drive only in daylight, and we aren't allowed to drive as far on P-Day anymore. What this meant is that even though zone conference was on Wednesday, we ended up staying in Fier Monday night after P-Day (because it has now been deemed too far to drive to Fier and back to Gjrio on a P-Day), doing a super exchange with Fier again haha which was sick, driving up to Lushnje, staying there Tuesday night, going to zone conference all together, doing a super exchange with Lushnje Wednesday evening, staying the night again, and finally returning all the way to Gjirokaster Thursday afternoon. It was pretty fun but I definitely missed my good ol Gjiro. As far as I've experienced, there is no area like it and it has honestly become what I consider to be home. It's definitely gonna be hard to leave this place haha so hopefully it won't happen for a little bit.

On that thought, last week I said there might be a chance that I leave Gjiro next week. I have now decided that the odds of that are pretty much 0 because I don't even think we are having transfers for another couple weeks after that. We should be completely good for a bit which is super nice because now I can just work to set Gjirokaster up for some major success after I leave. My plan is just to pound through old contacts and do as much finding as possible while simultaneously continuing the meet with the friends we do have. It's gonna be hard but I'm going to make it happen because Gjiro deserves some really good pune going down. 

The highlight of the week was definitely zone conference. It was exactly what I needed exactly when I needed it. I've definitely been having a much less productive/negative mindset as of late and zone conference was a good wakeup call. We have had some really really good days since then so clearly I'm doing better than I was. A lot of topics were covered in zone conference, but what stuck out to me the most was the concept of love and service. Specifically, I felt so strongly that the solution to all of my worries and struggles as a missionary would be solved by love and service, no matter what the issue was or if it was correlated at all. It's so interesting too because I don't even think the topic itself was covered very much at all, but I have felt so impressed to truly change the way I have been living out here. I've felt close to all of the missionaries out here and I can genuinely say I love all of them deeply, but I realized that specifically in regards to my companion, I haven't been doing a great job of showing that love. Since then I have been trying to find every way possible to get up in the morning and just serve. I've discovered as well that it is kinda hard to find things when we personally don't own a whole lot of stuff and don't do a whole lot of things in our house... Haha BUT I have still managed to find little small ways to serve. I've been doing all the dishes constantly, cleaning, making great breakfasts (I am a straight up gourmet chef sometimes I'm telling you), letting my companion buy and eat tons of ice cream even though it's not in season and makes no sense, making his bed, letting him shower first, etc. They are all such small things and don't seem like they would make that much of a difference (and maybe they don't from a certain point of view) but I FEEL so different. I feel so much more content and fulfilled. I can feel that my companion and I are closer even just in these few days and what's most amazing of all, is that I feel like we are getting more work done and having more success as missionaries. That last one has no direct link to my random acts of service in the morning but somehow they have still affected it. I'm not sure how and I'm not really sure why, but I can now firmly declare that every single aspect of life is positively affected if you simply decide to start looking for ways to selflessly serve.

So, if you read all of that and you actually followed what I said, my challenge for you is this: Choose one person in your life that you interact with regularly. It could be a family member, a friend, or a random teacher in school. This week, go out of your way to try and serve them more than ever before. Sit down for 2 minutes and just write out a bunch of little acts of service you can do, and then do them. NEXT WEEK report back to me how you feel and how you think it has affected you. I expect at least 5 reports to come in and I am positive there are at least 5 of you who read these hahaha so do it. If you have read this it is now a personal request from me to you. It. Is. Awesome.

Quick unrelated note before I close: Pday was very fun. We have the Korça Elders with us right now because Elder Basham had to come back to gjiro to get his documents since the cops took them after the wreck. Just meant that us bois got to explore the castle in the freezing rain.

Okay sick I don't think I succeeded in making this email more interesting than the last one. Maybe you regret reading this now because you'll feel guilty not accepting my personal challenge for you. If that's the case the best I can do is say that I'm sorry I'm not actually sorry for trying to encourage you to grow (because we all need to) and that I've got some great pictures for this week which you can view below. Jave te mbare! Ju dua shume miqte e mi!

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Servants of the Vineyard

It blows my mind that I'm already writing to all of you guys again. Time is flying by way too fast. President has told me too that he might take me out of Gjiro this next transfer (2 weeks) so we will see what happens there. My time in Gjiro has been so long yet so short all at once. A very strange feeling for sure that only those who have served missions can truly relate to. Let's get to it though shall we?

Highlights of the week:

Picked a ton of olives and tried tasting a raw one (don't recommend it)

Had a super exchange in Fier

Went to Saranda again woooo

Had some great English Course lessons!

Made a new friend and she came to church lets goooo

The language is still frustrating as frick

Met with a murderer

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To get started on all of that, Wednesday we stayed the night up in Fier with the Elders there and had an awesome exchange. On this exchange, I learned the glories of olive picking. Lowkey I really enjoyed it and it feels very good to just do some genuine service for a member for a change. Anyways, the day after that we all went to Vlore for another service project (guess what) picking olives. With the accumulated 5 hours or so of picking I'm starting to feel like I actually know my stuff. To make things even better, we are actually going to be picking olives for the same person again tomorrow morning haha. Super great and I am excited believe it or not. 

Okay some short story time now. I think I've mentioned how Elder Cannon and I have been attempting to revive the English Course in the area and how last week, we were successful in doing so. Well, turns out it was a true revival because we met with this lady another two times this last week for English course, and each time we were able to share a great spiritual thought afterwards. On Friday night, after our lesson, we were able to share a little bit about the restoration. We ended up giving her a Book of Mormon and inviting her to church on Sunday. Well, as it would turn at, she totally came yesterday! The unfortunate side of that is that everyone else decided to bail on us yesterday so she was the only one there... Kinda awkward for a first-timer to show up and just have us there haha. But, she had met our member Dritan a couple days before so she was pretty understanding of it. We were able to have a great discussion explaining what the sacrament was, do the ordinance, sing some hymns together with just the 3 of us, and then we had a full restoration lesson with her there in the church building. It was super awesome and she said she'd like to come back again! We are also continuing English course with her so we will for sure be seeing her a bunch. After she left the building, my companion and I just lost it. We were so grateful and so excited to have been a part of that miracle and we just hope to be able to continue to see it unfold. 

So the murderer thing is kinda fun. On Tuesday we were wandering the city talking to people as you do in our secluded area, and we ran into this old man carrying bags up a hill. I offered to help him with the bags, but he said he was good because he was so close to his home. He then, in typical friendly Xhaxhi Albanian fashion, asked us where we were from. After talking to him for a while, he asked us if we would like to come sit down with him in his home and have a drink and just visit. We of course, with nothing else on our schedule, accepted and followed this guy back to his house. We sat down and talked to him, drank some peach juice, talked to this other young guy who lived on the second floor of this guy's house, and had a good typical discussion with this guy as you would expect from an 80 year old (or maybe older?) dude who lived through communism. After maybe about 15 minutes of being there, this guy's son walks into the room incredibly concerned. He started talking to his dad asking what the heck we were doing there and what he was doing with us. Our old guy explained that we were American and he wanted to visit with us and do some good ol muhabet (small talk). The son then told us we needed to leave immediately and that it was dangerous. A little confused, I started standing up asking for clarification, and all he said was "hajdeni! Eshte e rrezikshme! Tani!". Very interesting for us. Anyways, as we were leaving I was asking the son what was wrong, and he told us that we should never come back and that his father had killed his mother and had been in prison quite a while. A little surprising to be sure haha but we thanked him and we went on our way. Definitely one of the weirder interactions I've had since getting here.

As of right now, I am actually in Fier again. We won't be in Gjirokaster again until Thursday because we have gotten some new travel rules that keeps us from traveling too long or at night so we are staying here in Fier tonight, doing that service project in Vlore tomorrow, and then staying in Lushnje tomorrow night before zone conference. It's definitely gonna be a good week and it's always exciting to get to stay the night with other Elders. 

Alright I love you guys! Do flasim javen tjeter! Cauuu

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